Unfortunately, while it won't help you, Kent, this picture of what i use to install plugs might help someone else from cross-threading.

It's a rubber vacuum fitting cap. Find one that is a bit of a snug fit over the top of the plug. Then, screw the plug in until it seats. If it won't go in to virtual seat with finger torque, something isn't right. DON'T put a wrench to it until you can fit-tight seat it. This little cap gives enough grip to be able to seat it if it's not cross-threaded.
I've read of the 'back-wards' tap. Can't remember where -- might have been Paul Dean in Cycle World. Sounds worth a try. Don't remember the source. Try 'googling' it.